a best friend just informed me (yesterday) of something that happened in the last two weeks. I'm going to say as much in as little as i can about this.
They told me they [did this], they didnt feel bad, but they dont know what to do. they also told me they they chose me to talk to this about because they somehow knew i was the person that would keep a level logic head about it. this is true. i couldnt say anything about it for 10 minutes, i was speechless. Then i started asking questions getting the answers i wasnt looking for and processing. now they have a life changing thing to think about because of what happened, and what could happen.
i told them probably the best thing they could hear in the situation that has come up:
"No matter what you do, [name], i will never be mad at you. I will be here for when you need to talk, and i will input when you need me to. i will do my best to be the friend you need me to be, and no matter what you decided to do i will take your side 100%"
and sort of in their time of need, my phone is stolen.. and now i have to wait til Monday before i can even call them and talk to them.