I like the last one best.
its a 'slide show' so i'm not going to copy and paste it.
click the title. :)
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
mr. next to mr. right yahoo dating 101 (link)
And i found The John Tesh show online so i can listen or read all of his "intelligence for you life" things. :)
I read this back when it was first posted.
Think your Mr. Next has the potential to be Mr. Right? Before you leap without looking, take an honest inventory. See how many of the following five essential traits he possesses.
Dating Trait #1: He listens to you
The best way to know if Mr. Next is interested in (and worthy of) being a candidate for Mr. Right? He listens to you. You'll know he's listening when he shows genuine concern, consistently remembers things you've told him (your birthday, favorite food, best friend's name, etc.), and offers emotional support in honest and thoughtful ways.
Dating Trait #2: He connects with you easily
We've all been in those relationships that take W-O-R-K (and suck the life force out of us in the process). When a relationship works on its own, it feels effortless, easy, and fluid. You don't have to force anything, forgive anyone, or turn a blind eye to red flags or gut-twisters. Instead, you communicate and collaborate with comfort, compatibility, and undeniable chemistry. If and when you experience this kind of interaction, you are on to something really special.
Dating Trait #3: He wants the real you
So often, women feel the need to sacrifice some part of themselves to make a relationship work. In the right relationship, there's no need. You don't have to hide, tone down, or apologize for any aspect of you or your fabulous life. With the right partner, you're not only able to be yourself, but you're better able to be the best version of your most authentic self -- no compromises needed.
Dating Trait #4: He's trustworthy
A relationship without trust is doomed from the start. But a relationship with abundant trust? A fabulous foundation for real and lasting love! Built over time, trust is based on the simple belief system that your partner has your best interests at heart and will never intentionally hurt you (and vice versa). If and when you discover that Mr. Next is 100 percent trustworthy, you'll have no trouble giving your heart to him. In return, he'll most likely give you his heart and pave the way for a lasting, loving relationship to unfold.
Dating Trait #5: He enriches your life
In the wrong relationship, your partner tears you to emotional shreds, brings you down, and in general drains your energy. In the right relationship, he enriches your life, inspires you to be your best self, and brings a sense of peace and possibility to you. You'll know Mr. Next is enriching your life if and when he encourages and supports you professionally, personally, and spiritually. And when he does, he may just be Mr. Right!
Does your Mr. Next possess all five qualities? If so, congratulations! You have done your homework, chosen wisely, and are now well positioned for relationship success.
If not, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back into the dating pool with a clearer understanding of who you want to date. Remember, finding your life partner isn't always easy, but by being clear, honoring yourself, and acting accordingly, you'll cut down on wasted time with Mr. Wrong and Mr. Next, and ultimately make room for Mr. Right.
I read this back when it was first posted.
Think your Mr. Next has the potential to be Mr. Right? Before you leap without looking, take an honest inventory. See how many of the following five essential traits he possesses.
Dating Trait #1: He listens to you
The best way to know if Mr. Next is interested in (and worthy of) being a candidate for Mr. Right? He listens to you. You'll know he's listening when he shows genuine concern, consistently remembers things you've told him (your birthday, favorite food, best friend's name, etc.), and offers emotional support in honest and thoughtful ways.
Dating Trait #2: He connects with you easily
We've all been in those relationships that take W-O-R-K (and suck the life force out of us in the process). When a relationship works on its own, it feels effortless, easy, and fluid. You don't have to force anything, forgive anyone, or turn a blind eye to red flags or gut-twisters. Instead, you communicate and collaborate with comfort, compatibility, and undeniable chemistry. If and when you experience this kind of interaction, you are on to something really special.
Dating Trait #3: He wants the real you
So often, women feel the need to sacrifice some part of themselves to make a relationship work. In the right relationship, there's no need. You don't have to hide, tone down, or apologize for any aspect of you or your fabulous life. With the right partner, you're not only able to be yourself, but you're better able to be the best version of your most authentic self -- no compromises needed.
Dating Trait #4: He's trustworthy
A relationship without trust is doomed from the start. But a relationship with abundant trust? A fabulous foundation for real and lasting love! Built over time, trust is based on the simple belief system that your partner has your best interests at heart and will never intentionally hurt you (and vice versa). If and when you discover that Mr. Next is 100 percent trustworthy, you'll have no trouble giving your heart to him. In return, he'll most likely give you his heart and pave the way for a lasting, loving relationship to unfold.
Dating Trait #5: He enriches your life
In the wrong relationship, your partner tears you to emotional shreds, brings you down, and in general drains your energy. In the right relationship, he enriches your life, inspires you to be your best self, and brings a sense of peace and possibility to you. You'll know Mr. Next is enriching your life if and when he encourages and supports you professionally, personally, and spiritually. And when he does, he may just be Mr. Right!
Does your Mr. Next possess all five qualities? If so, congratulations! You have done your homework, chosen wisely, and are now well positioned for relationship success.
If not, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back into the dating pool with a clearer understanding of who you want to date. Remember, finding your life partner isn't always easy, but by being clear, honoring yourself, and acting accordingly, you'll cut down on wasted time with Mr. Wrong and Mr. Next, and ultimately make room for Mr. Right.
8 Surprising Things You Need to Know About Men
click the title for the site
In "Clash of the Titans", Luke Evans wears gold body armor. But we got the British actor to shed his protective layer and reveal way more. Here, he spills eight guy secrets.
1. They Get Self-Conscious
"I'm just about to start filming a movie where I'm topless most of the film and I can tell you that yeah, we get self-conscious about our bodies! Most men have an insecurity of some sort. But we're brought up to believe that we can't show them."
2. They Think About Old Girlfriends
"You never get over an ex, but you learn to live with it. A friend told me that recently and I think it's a great phrase."
3. They Don't All Cheat ... But If They Do, There's a Reason
"Most guys have self-control and they could stop themselves. [So if it happens, it means] he might have lost sight of the reasons he fell in love with the person he's with."
4. They Like to Be Romantic
"Just the other week, I sang to a very close female friend. She almost cried. And I love to cook! I've impressed hundreds of women with my cooking. And they always come back for more."
5. They Have Platonic Girl Pals ... Sort Of
"Absolutely we can have female friends and not want to sleep with them. You dream about having sex with them, but you don't actually have sex with them."
6. They're Not Necessarily Capable of No-Strings-Attached Sex
"People would like to say a friend with benefits works, but in the long run it doesn't. We'd all love to have someone we can just hook up with a booty call but when you sleep with somebody, there's more to it. There are emotions."
7. They're Baffled by How Women Can Become Insta-Friends
"I'm always impressed how they can get on and talk about anything. You put them in a room together and they just talk. With men, it's harder to get into a conversation. We have to suss each other out first."
8. They Do Think About the Future
"In 10 years, I'd love to live near the sea, in a warmer climate. I could see myself with three dogs ... and it'd be great to share them with someone else."
In "Clash of the Titans", Luke Evans wears gold body armor. But we got the British actor to shed his protective layer and reveal way more. Here, he spills eight guy secrets.
1. They Get Self-Conscious
"I'm just about to start filming a movie where I'm topless most of the film and I can tell you that yeah, we get self-conscious about our bodies! Most men have an insecurity of some sort. But we're brought up to believe that we can't show them."
2. They Think About Old Girlfriends
"You never get over an ex, but you learn to live with it. A friend told me that recently and I think it's a great phrase."
3. They Don't All Cheat ... But If They Do, There's a Reason
"Most guys have self-control and they could stop themselves. [So if it happens, it means] he might have lost sight of the reasons he fell in love with the person he's with."
4. They Like to Be Romantic
"Just the other week, I sang to a very close female friend. She almost cried. And I love to cook! I've impressed hundreds of women with my cooking. And they always come back for more."
5. They Have Platonic Girl Pals ... Sort Of
"Absolutely we can have female friends and not want to sleep with them. You dream about having sex with them, but you don't actually have sex with them."
6. They're Not Necessarily Capable of No-Strings-Attached Sex
"People would like to say a friend with benefits works, but in the long run it doesn't. We'd all love to have someone we can just hook up with a booty call but when you sleep with somebody, there's more to it. There are emotions."
7. They're Baffled by How Women Can Become Insta-Friends
"I'm always impressed how they can get on and talk about anything. You put them in a room together and they just talk. With men, it's harder to get into a conversation. We have to suss each other out first."
8. They Do Think About the Future
"In 10 years, I'd love to live near the sea, in a warmer climate. I could see myself with three dogs ... and it'd be great to share them with someone else."
Pulled a 'super saiyan'
hahaha this guy in my class just pulled a 'super saiyan'
we have a take home test, and he counted up the points to 80... green lantern and i looked at him strange and told him it actually is 100 points.. so he had to go back and count again.
green lantern said 'learn to count, man!'
we have a take home test, and he counted up the points to 80... green lantern and i looked at him strange and told him it actually is 100 points.. so he had to go back and count again.
green lantern said 'learn to count, man!'
Rain rain stay here!
Yep. its raining out. its suppose to be raining all week. :)
only bad thing about the rain is No One in Texas knows how to drive in the rain.
only bad thing about the rain is No One in Texas knows how to drive in the rain.
YES! I figured it out
I figured out how to link my post to whatever URL i'm talking about.
So if there is a link in the post click on the title of the post (or open in new tab) and it will take you to the link of the post.
I have also changed the archiving(sp) of the the posting (on the side) its by day of postings, under months.
and more posts are on the front page. It was just 7 because i thought i would forget about this, or only post once a day, but i'm much better than i thought i was going to be... and may be 'blogging' to much, since i can text in my blogs.. :)
its now up to the last 10 days of blogs on the front page.
saw x yesterday; he gave back the ring.
those are really bad glasses, even if we were still dating, i would say they are awful... because they are. They dont make you look like what you said they do.... they make your forehead and eyebrows more prominent.. and that looks reeeeallly bad.
whiteMM was talking to me about ring engravings, and Super Saiyan was talking to me about his book, and asking about my day.
supawife was talking to me about what bosslady was doing, about what classes i had today.
So three people decided to start texting me when x picked me up, and i almost got confused on who i was talking to what about.
oh and before i forget x if you are continually mentioned in my blog what would you like to go by so i dont use your name, or continue to just call you x/him... if you care... i guess you can text me.. I had something else to ask you, but i forgot.. I hope i remember it was sort of important... but i guess not to important.
Off to my last class of the day!
So if there is a link in the post click on the title of the post (or open in new tab) and it will take you to the link of the post.
I have also changed the archiving(sp) of the the posting (on the side) its by day of postings, under months.
and more posts are on the front page. It was just 7 because i thought i would forget about this, or only post once a day, but i'm much better than i thought i was going to be... and may be 'blogging' to much, since i can text in my blogs.. :)
its now up to the last 10 days of blogs on the front page.
saw x yesterday; he gave back the ring.
those are really bad glasses, even if we were still dating, i would say they are awful... because they are. They dont make you look like what you said they do.... they make your forehead and eyebrows more prominent.. and that looks reeeeallly bad.
whiteMM was talking to me about ring engravings, and Super Saiyan was talking to me about his book, and asking about my day.
supawife was talking to me about what bosslady was doing, about what classes i had today.
So three people decided to start texting me when x picked me up, and i almost got confused on who i was talking to what about.
oh and before i forget x if you are continually mentioned in my blog what would you like to go by so i dont use your name, or continue to just call you x/him... if you care... i guess you can text me.. I had something else to ask you, but i forgot.. I hope i remember it was sort of important... but i guess not to important.
Off to my last class of the day!
American Lit II
I think she is figure out that no one in the class is actually interested in her class anymore.
She asks us questions about the reading and no one answers, she asks if we read the reading, and no one answers (most of the class probably didnt read it)..
I know i've given up on reading anything in her class because she is so incredibly boring!
I dont even if i fail her class (which i wont) but i'm not reading anything else from her class, so if its on the test i'll just BS it.
We do have a test Monday, it was going to be today, but she changed the day... which sucks.... gaahhh!
we have 2 parts to the test.
part one is she gives us a bunch of quotes and we have to tell her which story its from, who the author is, and what the meaning of the quote is to the work as a whole.
and part two is essay style questions.... WHICH are the worse! because its not on "your opinion" its on hers, and hers change from person to person.
good thing; we get to use our books for the 'essay' questions this time unlike the other tests, but we cant use them for the quotes..... Like she'll know??~!!
She is an awful teacher!@#!@!
after each person turns in the test, she looks over it right then and there (not grades just scans) and makes faces at wrong answers and noises on wrong opinions... so she basically tells the entire class with out saying anything that you did really bad on your test.
and the test we're having Monday was voted on being in, so that we didnt have a cumulative final.. and shes giving us one anyway.
we were going to have to take it regardless, because she wanted to make a harder test to BRING DOWN the test average.
If you live in the San Antonio area, and go to northwest vista, and NEED an American Lit I class DO NOT TAKE MARY JEAN HODOR! She is down right the worse teacher!
She asks us questions about the reading and no one answers, she asks if we read the reading, and no one answers (most of the class probably didnt read it)..
I know i've given up on reading anything in her class because she is so incredibly boring!
I dont even if i fail her class (which i wont) but i'm not reading anything else from her class, so if its on the test i'll just BS it.
We do have a test Monday, it was going to be today, but she changed the day... which sucks.... gaahhh!
we have 2 parts to the test.
part one is she gives us a bunch of quotes and we have to tell her which story its from, who the author is, and what the meaning of the quote is to the work as a whole.
and part two is essay style questions.... WHICH are the worse! because its not on "your opinion" its on hers, and hers change from person to person.
good thing; we get to use our books for the 'essay' questions this time unlike the other tests, but we cant use them for the quotes..... Like she'll know??~!!
She is an awful teacher!@#!@!
after each person turns in the test, she looks over it right then and there (not grades just scans) and makes faces at wrong answers and noises on wrong opinions... so she basically tells the entire class with out saying anything that you did really bad on your test.
and the test we're having Monday was voted on being in, so that we didnt have a cumulative final.. and shes giving us one anyway.
we were going to have to take it regardless, because she wanted to make a harder test to BRING DOWN the test average.
If you live in the San Antonio area, and go to northwest vista, and NEED an American Lit I class DO NOT TAKE MARY JEAN HODOR! She is down right the worse teacher!
childhood friend/SS/school
i've known this guy forever!! we use to live right next to each other in California, and when the base closed they went to Germany, and we moved to Texas...
we got updates once a year from them, and we gave them updates.
But my childhood friend, got married back in September on my moms birthday, and early this morning had a baby.
Childhood Friend -- "As of 140003APRIL2010, I have a heathy 7.5 lbs, 19 1/2 in long baby boy. He and his momma both performed exceptional when it counted. Happiest day of my life hands down." - facebook
now he's all grown up and with a family.... its insane.. it makes me realize how long i've known him, and how much we've actually grew up..
In other news, My Super Saiyan friend did a rough draft from one of his senior classes in college, and the rough draft is 65 pages long.....
The teacher said ROUGH DRAFT not BOOK! :p
Today is Wednesday, the 14th...
I convinced my first teacher of the day (Brit lit II) that i left my essay and response paper nine on the printer, when in fact they are not done yet.. I told her i would email them to her when i get home tonight, which will be around 845pm, but she doesnt know that, so i'll just have to be sure to email them to her before midnight, or have my sister drop them off in her office tomorrow sometime.
and my second class of the day was canceled (American lit II)... which was a bit weird because as i was going to class i ran into the teach (not literally) and asked her a few questions about a student she use to have and about the assignment that was due today. Another student also talked to her before class... and she said nothing to either of us about class being canceled.
I hope my third class in canceled.. I hate this next class so much! I hate going to it, i hate the way the teacher talks, and her style of teaching. i really dislike her awkward inappropriate jokes, and her tests. (which we have one today over Moby Dick) The tests never have anything on them about what we go over in class...
I have a take home 'test' from my cal 1 class that is due Friday for some reason. (we only have class MW, i dont go to school any other days (TRF)) I'm going to see if i can extend my deadline and turn it in next Monday because i dont have a ride anyway to school on Friday and i'm helping my boss pack up the office... so i want to work on it over the weekend.
my day is half over, but thats what going on in it so far. :)
we got updates once a year from them, and we gave them updates.
But my childhood friend, got married back in September on my moms birthday, and early this morning had a baby.
Childhood Friend -- "As of 140003APRIL2010, I have a heathy 7.5 lbs, 19 1/2 in long baby boy. He and his momma both performed exceptional when it counted. Happiest day of my life hands down." - facebook
now he's all grown up and with a family.... its insane.. it makes me realize how long i've known him, and how much we've actually grew up..
In other news, My Super Saiyan friend did a rough draft from one of his senior classes in college, and the rough draft is 65 pages long.....
The teacher said ROUGH DRAFT not BOOK! :p
Today is Wednesday, the 14th...
I convinced my first teacher of the day (Brit lit II) that i left my essay and response paper nine on the printer, when in fact they are not done yet.. I told her i would email them to her when i get home tonight, which will be around 845pm, but she doesnt know that, so i'll just have to be sure to email them to her before midnight, or have my sister drop them off in her office tomorrow sometime.
and my second class of the day was canceled (American lit II)... which was a bit weird because as i was going to class i ran into the teach (not literally) and asked her a few questions about a student she use to have and about the assignment that was due today. Another student also talked to her before class... and she said nothing to either of us about class being canceled.
I hope my third class in canceled.. I hate this next class so much! I hate going to it, i hate the way the teacher talks, and her style of teaching. i really dislike her awkward inappropriate jokes, and her tests. (which we have one today over Moby Dick) The tests never have anything on them about what we go over in class...
I have a take home 'test' from my cal 1 class that is due Friday for some reason. (we only have class MW, i dont go to school any other days (TRF)) I'm going to see if i can extend my deadline and turn it in next Monday because i dont have a ride anyway to school on Friday and i'm helping my boss pack up the office... so i want to work on it over the weekend.
my day is half over, but thats what going on in it so far. :)
Special way to waste money
STARTING FALL 2005
STUDENTS CHOOSING TO ATTEMPT THE SAME COURSE MORE THAN TWICE WILL BE CHARGED AN ADDITIONAL SPECIAL TUITION RATE OF $146.50 PER SEMESTER CREDIT HOUR FOR IN DISTRICT AND $100.00 PER SEMESTER CREDIT HOUR FOR OUT OF DISTRICT UNLESS THE COURSE IS CLASSIFIED AS A SPECIAL TOPICS COURSE.
I feel soo Special to be charged extra money for a class that i continue to fail.
(not me personally I've never failed a class more than once, excluding chem 1)
STUDENTS CHOOSING TO ATTEMPT THE SAME COURSE MORE THAN TWICE WILL BE CHARGED AN ADDITIONAL SPECIAL TUITION RATE OF $146.50 PER SEMESTER CREDIT HOUR FOR IN DISTRICT AND $100.00 PER SEMESTER CREDIT HOUR FOR OUT OF DISTRICT UNLESS THE COURSE IS CLASSIFIED AS A SPECIAL TOPICS COURSE.
I feel soo Special to be charged extra money for a class that i continue to fail.
(not me personally I've never failed a class more than once, excluding chem 1)
guy... whaaa?
same ring guy, just told me that he was going to go to the bathroom, and then just stood up and walked away...
people i dont know dont usually just tell me they have to go...
hahaha. i like this song
its called the rocky road to Dublin, by a group called the high kings
irish people are so adorable. i love they way they talk. :)
its on youtube.com so if you want to listen
"the high kings, rocky road to Dublin"
Or click on the title of this blog
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0QdbeM2JWYE
irish people are so adorable. i love they way they talk. :)
its on youtube.com so if you want to listen
"the high kings, rocky road to Dublin"
Or click on the title of this blog
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0QdbeM2JWYE
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